In 2002, not knowing of any other lesbian social groups in North Oxfordshire, I founded G.O.S. We were based in Chipping Norton, but also met in Banbury and other surrounding villages and towns, depending on where members lived.
There were lesbian and bisexual women from all over Oxfordshire on the mailing list. Usually 6-10 women came along each week, and we met up every Tuesday night. We always had a good laugh and fun evening doing different social activities as a group.
We had a stall at Oxford Pride 2007, and took part in numerous Oxford Pride parades.
As is the nature of such a group, women came and went. Some met their partners in the group. But best of all, many friendships were formed.
I was interviewed in 2008 by BBC Radio Oxford about G.O.S https://soundcloud.com/user-912246522-822843392/my-interview-on-bbc-oxford-radio-281108
Things started to wind down in 2015, and while no longer an active group, there are a few of us in contact as friends still currently. Our freewebs site is now closed and any information posted here instead.
If you are questioning your sexuality, or newly out, or new to the area, or just would like to get to know more lesbian or bi women, then do get in touch.
I am happy to meet up with newcomers for a chat, and then introduce you to more people if you wish, for a country walk or meal out perhaps.
We all had to make that first step once and can remember how daunting it felt to not know anyone else. In fact in 2023 I found myself realising I’m not just lesbian, but in fact bisexual, so ‘came out’ all over again!
Please email me, Sarah, if you’d like to chat. gos.info@yahoo.co.uk
Remember, your sexuality doesn’t change who you are, you are wonderfully unique, the same as the rest of us. Take care of yourself x
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